Dating Tips for Men
Relax
Loosen those muscles boys. By that I mean muscles everywhere
including those down there(She might be hot but get a hold
of yourself). She might be the girl of your dreams and blah
blah but she's just another girl after all and chances are
she's excited about the date as well.
Be yourself
A girl will need to like you for who you are and not who
you try to be. Although you might have lack of confidence,
it is better to show the real you(unless you re really a
wolf in sheeps clothing). If you try to hide the real you,
it might be even more disasterous when she realised it herself.
Respect
Treat her like how a lady should be treated(not curse and
insult them like what you normally do to your guy friends).
Even if the date did not go successfuly, at least she knows
you re a nice guy(or at least you try to be 1).
Listen
Open up your ears guys. Its of utmost importance. People
tend to focus too much on themselves when they are with
other people but she ll rather listen to a radio if she
wants someone to entertain her throughout. Although it is
good to take the lead and initiate chats, please give her
chances(and i mean lots of it) to express her views and
opinions and at the same time let you learn more about her
First impressions
Well, I supposed this is important in everything you do.
Being good looking helps. Having a gentlemanly look helps(Now
is a good chance to blame your parents). Ultimately, looks
are not everything(girls are not like guys). Be confident
in yourself and play to your strengths when dressing up.
Be open
When chatting with your date, no matter how much you disagree
on stuff she says, try to keep an open mind and understand
that nobody have the same opinions and you should respect
everybody's opinion in the end(Unless you want to pick up
a quarral on your first date and make this your first and
last date). Its more important to try and have a good time
instead of trying to make people believe in what you think.
Ultimately, every women is different and different things
catches their eyes. You might not get another chance to
date with her after this date but the problem might not
lie with you as generally you have given her a decent impression(i
hope..) but maybe you're just not her kind(She prefers the
monkeys kind). Be cool about it and get on with life dudes!
